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I am not trying to keep a lid on the drinking - I am just trying to survive! It is not a good marriage for me, but for some reason I dont know how to end it. It is like I am scared to death to make him mad, I dont see it being a mutual agreement - he is not going to take it very well. I have responsibilities at home to where I feel like I cant leave and dont have the heart or guts to ask him to! |
Scared to death to make him mad--that's no way to live in your own home. The problem feelings you are having sound far more serious than his drinking, because it sounds like you are afraid of his temper whether he has had a drink or not.
That makes me think there is a rather severe inequality in your marriage. That goes beyond his drinking now and then. Take a look at that--and the other feelings you are having--and set the drinking issue aside temporary. This marriage appears from what you wrote, to be very unequal and manipulative, and intimidating.
He may drink sometimes, but those behaviors are not necessarily connected to drinking at all, although it sounds like they are AMPLIFIED when he has been.
Source: http://www.soberrecovery.com/forums/friends-family-alcoholics/287998-questions-alcoholism.html
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